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WHAT IS A LEGACY?

 

Simply put, a legacy tells how individuals are remembered over time. It refers to something handed down from the past such as values, beliefs, or practices passed through generations. It can also signify the lasting impact of an individual's actions or contributions. In essence, it's one's life story - the good, the bad, the ugly, the mistakes and the learning that occurred from them, the failures and what one did to overcome them, and of course, the successes. 
 

Most significant of the values Spencer and Lucille Wilder held dearly, and instilled in their children, were Christian faith and education. These cherished values were passed down to their children, fostering a legacy of strong commitment to this path forward. From a young age, every child of Spencer and Lucille Wilder embraced their faith in Christ and successfully completed high school in the traditional way. Many pursued higher education, earning associates degrees, bachelor’s degrees and some even achieving advanced degrees. Today, seventy-nine years after our father’s death and forty-three years after Madear’s death, we can see in the lives of the next generation of Wilders — the grandchildren of Madear and Mr. Wilder - continuing this trend — an affirmation that they too hold Spencer and Lucille’s legacy in high regard.

Every family has a legacy, and we want to hear yours because "FAMILY MATTERS!"

STEPS IN WRITING A LEGACY

 

 

 

Reflect on Your Life

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  1. Set aside time to think about your life’s journey, key milestones, and the moments that shaped you.

 

   2. Write on a level that a 9 year old child can read. 

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Outline Your Message

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  1. Start by explaining why you are writing the letter,

  2. then share stories, values, and gratitude.

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Write from the Heart

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  1. Use your own voice,

  2. focus on sincerity rather than perfect prose.

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Finalize and Preserve

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  1. Review your draft, perhaps with a trusted friend,

  2. then keep a printed copy with your important papers and a digital backup. 


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​WHAT TO INCLUDE IN A LEGACY

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1. The beliefs that have guided your choices.

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2. Life Lessons: 

a. Wisdom earned through experiences, failures, and triumphs. 

b. Family Stories and Traditions:

c. Tales that connect the past to the future.

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TIPS FOR SUCCESS

 

  1. Start Small: Write about one memory or lesson at a time.

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​   2. Be Specific: Instead of generalities, share vivid details of stories.

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​   3. Don't Wait: It is never too early to start writing, as the process can bring joy and clarity         to your present life.

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​    4. Use Tools: Consider using photo albums, journals, or video/audio recordings to                            complement your writing.

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Please CLICK HERE and complete the "My Legacy Form"​​​​

click on the link below to view an example of a legacy

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